14. They tend to hold grudges.
People with covert narcissism tend to hold grudges for a long time. Because they are typically more shy than grandiose narcissists, they may choose to hold their silence when they feel they have been treated unfairly, even if they are actually furious. They end up holding a grudge, waiting for an opportunity to get back at the person. They may also hold grudges against those who get recognition for something they think they themselves deserve. Whatever the cause, these grudges can make a narcissist feel resentment and bitterness. It may lead to a desire for revenge, which they may take in a passive-aggressive way. Some examples of revenge are publicly shaming others, or starting rumors about them.
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